So when within the first five minutes of the episode when Tierra calls Ashlee a "cougar" and taunts "She's 32 years old. Why isn't she settled down?" It made me want to punch her and cry at the same time.
I am 32. I'm not settled down. And I don't f-ing know why ok?! It may be because I wasted too much of my time on losers in my teens and twenties. It may be because I am too afraid to put myself out there because I've had my heart broken one too many times. It may be because I'm a hopeless romantic and haven't found my movie love. And yeah maybe movie love doesn't exist. It may be because I made a few mistakes. It may be because I was focused on working and building my own life. It may be because maybe my first love was my soul mate and he died way too early. It may be because I'm not pretty enough...not outgoing enough...not slutty enough...too selfish...too lazy...too quiet...i.don't.know.
But I feel like that is what everyone thinks of me. That something is wrong with me because I'm not married. Trust me I want to get married. I want to have a family. But if I admit that I am too desperate and if I try to deny it then I'm just a sad spinster. So what the hell do I do?
I often wonder the same thing "Why am I still single?" "Is something wrong with me?" "Am I too far past my prime that it will never happen now?"
Tierra brings up Ashlee being 32 again when blaming everything that is going bad for her on everyone else. She again implies that something is wrong with her for not being settled down already and I just wanted to scream "I hope you never freaking get married Tierra!!!!" Life does not always go by plan. Just because you aren't settled down by 30 it doesn't mean that something is wrong with you or "you aren't good with men".
Oh man! What a way to make single girls feel like crap during the week of Valentine's Day. I hope Tierra goes in to the witness protection program or something because I know if I ever run into her I will have to give her a good hard b**** slap for single gals everywhere. (and no I have never slapped anyone, but she would totally be worth it.)
I hope she is seriously embarrassed by her behavior on the show (doubtful) and I can't wait to see what she has to say on the women tell all show ($100 bucks she's too chicken to show her face). And I'm sure if she doesn't show up, it will be the girls fault.
Tierra you suck!